Cheers to Moms
May 11, 2008 by Fran
Mother’s are special. You realize all the more how much goes into Mothering when you become one. Suddenly your whole world revolves around the care & entrusting of bringing up a child. It is one of the most difficult jobs you could ever love. Because there are no breaks from it, really, and you are committed pretty much like the traditional wedding vows-for better or worse, in sickness & in health, rich or poor. Now that I think about it, many parent child relationships actually uphold those vows longer & stronger, than marriage vows. Although there are tons of books on parenting, much of it is learn as you go. In the early years especially, it seems once you have figured out a workable routine or solution, the child evolves to something new & different.
The tricky part is to teach them or allow them to experience life, try to set them on a good path, and then there is the letting go. The need to let them think & do for themselves, after spending a few decades with total 
responsibility, gradually letting up to let them do their own evolving & learning, and flying from the nest, to forge their own lives.
I always felt the best case scenario, is to wind up being good friends with your child, as adults. To have a healthy relationship that allows them to come back, ask questions, maybe advice, and to celebrate life together, have that unique relationship.
To be there for each other over the years, in a tight bond out of choice and a literal of blossoming of the relationship. Sometimes a parent has to just shut up and let the child experience their own path. Other times, you have to have the heart to heart discussions that are difficult, but must be said.
I’ve always had a special place in my heart for my Mom- even though we went through some very difficult times over the years. It is the Love that prevails.
Cheers to all who have taken on the role of Mothering Children- be it biological, blended, foster, adopted, male, or anyone who cares for & about children. This is a thanks for all the people who take some action to be supportive of children, even if they are not your own.
You hold the future in your hands.
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THis is a very nice tribute to us Mommies
I am away from home this weekend and I am wondering if the ball and chain, and most of all…my only child…will call me to wish me a Happy Mommy’s Day.
Probably not, so I will chuck it up to this whole thing is a gimmick by the greeting card industry.
Hope you have a good day Fran, thank you for all your wonderful thoughts put into print here at Sirens.
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Dear Dusty: Kids don’t always realize/appreciate all that you have done- or understand it is a blessing to have a family. Our family did not grow up in any kind of “Ward & June Cleaver” setting where Mom was home in an apron & high heels & Dad was at his desk in the study. Nowhere even close to that!
I was in a room full of people at some seminar & the facilitator asked “How many people come from a dysfunctional family?” Looked like 98% of the people raised their hands. We all have trials & tribulations & changes we go through– but that is the interesting thing about family, you are forced to be together & work things out- at least until you are of age to bail.
My family was all over the map with various issues, but we’ve morphed into some kind of functioning unit.
Still I find the 2000 mile buffer works well, and yesterday my Mom said she can complain to me & I get things done for her. I told her I am not sure if that arrangement is good or bad- and she said it is definately good *for her*…. then there was an awkward silence. I think I have taken on the role of filter/ interpreter. She conveys her emotions & needs, I condense it into a list or line items my Sister can run with.
Life is short & it’s great when people can find what works to get along. I hope your people come through for you today- although I do think there is a conspiracy going on in the greeting card industry.
Yesterday, I was treated to high tea at the 1888 Victorian house, pictured in the post . So cool to go back in time. We got to go all the way up to the 3rd story attic. Wow!
So hats off to Moms everywhere, from cutting teeth to whooping cough, Mom’s are there through thick & thin and deserve kudos.
Hey! Some people are Mother’s of Blogs, who care for all the posting children- a bouquet of thanks for that labor of love. ; >
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Happy Mothers Day Fran and all you wonderful women!
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My daughter and granddaughter called today to wish me a Happy Mommy’s Day. Not my son, although I am at work, so he may have called me at home and gotten my voice mail. However, it is a day, like any other day. Each day is worthy of celebration, believe it or not. Each day that voices speak out in truth is worthy of celebration. Happy Mommy’s Day!
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