A word on misogyny…

May 21, 2008 by Dusty 

First let me say, I am not supporting Obama..but I sure as hell am not supporting HRC either.

Allison Benedikt has written a wonderful OpEd for the Village Voice on Hillary, her supporters and her campaign. It tackles that pesky subject of misogyny very well m’dear reader and I encourage…yea I demand that you read it. Tell me then what you think of it. Just a small blurb of it to get you interested:

Next comes Arianna “No Fear” Huffington, suffering from a strain of short-term memory loss that seems to be going around, to declare: “The greatest triumph of Clinton’s campaign-a complete triumph-is the example she has set for the next generation.”

Currently pregnant with the next generation, let me just say this: There is no greater wish that a mother can have for her daughter than that she will exploit poor people, obliterate Iran, and win rigged class president elections, Putin-style. (Mom, I won 100 percent of the vote!)

I love her!!! Look, as a woman that has fought against sexism my entire fucking life and I might add, the first woman to hold the job as Project Manager on a NASA subcontract in the 80’s….I know how fucked up it is to be female and expect to be treated the same as males…and yet not be treated the same. I had to be better at my job than they were, work longer hours and make less money than they did. My husband divorced me because he was tired of me living at the office..I sacrificed my personal life for that fucking job..and I would probably do it all over again.

I am not bitter about any of it. I loved that job and when the spaceshuttle crashed, I knew many of us would be laid off. I opted to get laid off instead of having them dump a specific male co-worker because his son was suffering from brain cancer and I knew damn well that the health insurance was the most important part of the job for that guy at that point in time.

Besides I wanted to move back to Cali…and that is what I did when I got my walking papers. I went back to Cali, started my own business and raised my son as a single parent. If I am bitter about anything it’s that my ex-husband was a piece of batshit that never paid a buck in child support.

Being bitter never serves anyone. It eats you up inside. That is why I think Hillary and her staunchest supporters need to suck it up and deal. Instead of screaming, bitching and moaning about how she was ‘treated’ they should be proud of what she accomplished by using race, lies and bullshit to win the states she did.

Tossing rocks in a glass house ain’t a good idea..nope, it ain’t. And thanks Jet, for turning me on to Allison’s piece..it made my day!

Crossposted at Bring it On!

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6 Responses to “A word on misogyny…”

  1. betmo on May 21st, 2008 9:22 am

    well, how can i add anything to that? she hit it squarely out of the park. the whole thing just disgusts me. there are plenty of folks out there saying similar things about camp clinton- but true to her rovian playbook, if you aren’t with her- yer agin’ her- and a misogynist to boot. even if you are a woman. sort of like being ‘unpatriotic’ and not supporting the troops if you were against the war in iraq. what no one is coming right out and saying though- clinton is running a republican campaign. and that’s the truth of it.

    betmos last blog post..dodged another bullet

  2. Dusty on May 21st, 2008 10:16 am

    Yep, I agree with you Betmo. Hillary has learned well how to manipulate ala the Repub’s.

  3. Big Fella on May 21st, 2008 10:45 am

    The singular message that I always get from Hillary is that she is driven by blind ambition, that she will say or do anything to reach her goal and that the goal is the reason to persist, not any beliefs or values that she may have. I have started yelling at the TV when she is caught speachifying, I trust her as much as I trust George W. Bush.

    Big Fellas last blog post..One Saudi Blogger Saved; Now One Is Lost

  4. Dusty on May 21st, 2008 10:58 am

    I have to yell at the tv too BF! And her lies and half-truths..amazing that a person of her position is so driven to get something she will sell her soul to the devil for it.

  5. betmo on May 21st, 2008 7:38 pm

    the sad part is- who the hell would want this job now? seriously. i mean i realize she is living back in the 1990’s but if you take a look at how bushco screwed this country and the world- why she would want the job just to have it- is beyond me.

    betmos last blog post..dodged another bullet

  6. Dusty on May 22nd, 2008 3:23 pm

    A friend of mine brought up that point last year Betmo. And it makes sense if you think about it..the job would entail years of trying to fix BushCo’s fuckups, and not really initiating any new programs.

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