happy birthday dusterella!!!

December 15, 2009 by Betmo 

happy_birthday_cakethought i’d give a shout out to my favorite blogmistress :)

i don’t know where we are headed- no one does- but i find myself wondering if any of our ancestors stood on the cusp of their future and looked at their present with such depression.  don’t you feel it in the air- that air of what i feel is exhaustion?  you have folks who fought against- or simply lived during- the last 8 years of terror and fear and now, the last year of disappointment and constant negativity.  no wonder this isn’t a merry season for so many.  you won’t hear it in the msm- but there is so much loss here in america, i really believe most adults are trudging into the holiday season with dread rather than joy.  many have lost their jobs, homes, or integrity to keep the other two; many families are battling bankruptcy or medical issues or have a loved one who isn’t here- perhaps in the armed services, or have passed away- or divorce.

why do we have to take our misery out on each other?  i talk to people all of the time who work with folks who are so unhappy, they make the work environment hostile to others.  no one dares quit as they need the job.  folks rip each other apart because of skin color, sexual preference, religion, or political viewpoints.  really?  we really aren’t the united states of america anymore and haven’t been for some time- i guess we are simply americans- as are the canadians, folks in iceland- and all of south america.  we have about as much in common.

i’ll be honest, i won’t reconcile my feelings for folks who are mean spirited, miserable, and shortsighted- which pretty much encompasses 3/4 of the folks who call themselves americans.  the self centeredness of the culture has caused me to withdraw.  i have a feeling that the burned out exhausted folks wish they could too.

i find myself increasingly with little to say.  i learned long ago that folks don’t want to hear the truth if it interferes with their lifestyle.  i doubt that has changed.  everything i write- i have written on many occasions over the last 4 years or so that i have blogged.  i genuinely hoped people would change with a regime change- not obama or the congress but everyday people— and of course, they haven’t.  the war on christmas has been stoked up yet again and we still are hearing the same right wing slant to everything.  hard to stay positive with a steady dose of negative.

there is some hope- the obama admin has done many positive things quietly- as the msm doesn’t cover much positive about our first family.  there have been disappointments for sure- but it certainly doesn’t compare with the previous lawless 8 years.  we really should be focusing our attention where it really, really counts- local, state and congressional candidates.  we can make a difference on a smaller scale.  and really, the only reality we can change is our own.

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7 Responses to “happy birthday dusterella!!!”

  1. Dusty on December 15th, 2009 9:26 am

    Oh Holy Fuckamoly..my name in the title..that can not bode well for Amerika Betmo! ;)

    And this is a good post, which many people would whole-heartily agree with. But I am glad that the truth interferes with my lifestyle. It has educated me and gave me passion for the rest of the idiots on this planet. ;)

  2. Robb Willis on December 15th, 2009 12:30 pm

    I second the happy birthday to the fantasy sports hostess with the mostest!

    As for this current holiday season of depression, now would be a good time to declare Christmas a once-every-five-years celebration. Anyone else tired of dedicating 1/12 of their lives to this annual cluster f**k? Kids would be exempt from my draconian cut, but I haven’t figured out the fine points and logistical problems involved…

  3. betmo on December 15th, 2009 1:55 pm

    i hear ya robb- and i don’t consider myself a stick in the mud- but the only way to stop the madness that we decry every freakin’ year (and most complain about it but do it anyway) is to stop the madness.

    there isn’t any reason why we can’t have a nice celebration with food, libation and comaraderie- sans the obligatory gifting. why we continue to try and keep the retailers in the black once every year is beyond me. gifting should be with thought and caring- not because the national corporate machine says so.

    the kids who believe in santa- well, the magic of the season is for them. the rest of ya- tough shit. this year’s list we got from the inlaws— who insist on the obligatory gifting thing even though i have begged and pled yearly to stop— socks and blu ray dvds. really? really? you need me to buy you those. really?
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  4. trog69 on December 16th, 2009 6:07 am

    Well, well, well. Dusky finally hits the big 3-0! Happy, happy; Joy, joy!

  5. Dusty on December 16th, 2009 8:06 am

    Trog..have I told you lately that I adore you? ;)
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  6. Dusty on December 16th, 2009 8:07 am

    Robb..worst fantasy year evah for moi!

  7. BorderExplorer on December 16th, 2009 3:50 pm

    omg, I’m late to the party!~!!! Heck, Dusty, you know I’m sending love and hugs and all kinda good wishes to you. Feliz cumplean~os!
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